No! I'm not trying 2 wake u up from ur sleep. Not exactly.. I want u 2 open ur eyes. Don't just look around u, feel your surrounding. I'm sure u still dont get my message. Its time for elaboration:
Hv u been treating every1 around u well? R hv u been caring only of urself, ur problems n everyth? Hmm.. If u put urself in other people's shoes, do u think u r ok with urself? Would u think that u are annoying, or rude, or hot-tempered, or arrogant etc.. How hv u been reacting? Muhasabah urself! What kind of person r u in the eyes of others?
Sometimes, we dont know when we hurt other people. So, it is best if we make it a habit to always thinnk of others' feelings n treat them as well as ever, also ease ourselves 2 say please, sorry n thank u. In other words, be polite. Sorry seems to be the hardest word. (Rmb these lyrics? Haha..) But I'm calling all of u 2 always apologise. Yes, uve got not much to lose, I'm sure!
Next, do nice things 2 others. Even the simplest nice thing that we can do: smile. Smile n the world will smile with u. A smile is a gift in a special way, coz u still get 2 keep it when u give it away!! U even get credits (pahala) from Allah. Though some people might not return ur smile, as long as u smiled truly because of Allah, u've got nothing to lose. I mean it, nothing!! Rmember, a smile is a sadaqah (charity)!!
Impove ourselves. That's very important. Be better n better from moment 2 moment. There's always room for improvement u know.. Humans arent perfect. No, of course we arent.
Sometimes, it is useful to find out what our enemies/people who dislike us think about us. Because they notice our wrong doings, usually.. so, musyawarah (discuss) with them n try 2 retain a better n good relationship with them. They would mostly like it when u ask 4 their opinion, nicely.. I think. But it's okay 2 ask friends who are honest n would like to help u 2 improve urself, eyh? yup! totally!!
We muslims n muslimahs represent Islam, u see. So, please do try ur best to uphold the purity of Islam, uphold the principles in Islam. It is our responsibility. Sry, I hv to make this short. Gtg.
PS: Mu'mins (Muslims with Iman) never give difficulties 2 others. (Think abt it. It somehow is connected with this topic. Somehow..)
Wallahu'alam.
After more than 10years.
3 years ago
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