Oct 17, 2009
Wakey2!!
No! I'm not trying 2 wake u up from ur sleep. Not exactly.. I want u 2 open ur eyes. Don't just look around u, feel your surrounding. I'm sure u still dont get my message. Its time for elaboration:
Hv u been treating every1 around u well? R hv u been caring only of urself, ur problems n everyth? Hmm.. If u put urself in other people's shoes, do u think u r ok with urself? Would u think that u are annoying, or rude, or hot-tempered, or arrogant etc.. How hv u been reacting? Muhasabah urself! What kind of person r u in the eyes of others?
Sometimes, we dont know when we hurt other people. So, it is best if we make it a habit to always thinnk of others' feelings n treat them as well as ever, also ease ourselves 2 say please, sorry n thank u. In other words, be polite. Sorry seems to be the hardest word. (Rmb these lyrics? Haha..) But I'm calling all of u 2 always apologise. Yes, uve got not much to lose, I'm sure!
Next, do nice things 2 others. Even the simplest nice thing that we can do: smile. Smile n the world will smile with u. A smile is a gift in a special way, coz u still get 2 keep it when u give it away!! U even get credits (pahala) from Allah. Though some people might not return ur smile, as long as u smiled truly because of Allah, u've got nothing to lose. I mean it, nothing!! Rmember, a smile is a sadaqah (charity)!!
Impove ourselves. That's very important. Be better n better from moment 2 moment. There's always room for improvement u know.. Humans arent perfect. No, of course we arent.
Sometimes, it is useful to find out what our enemies/people who dislike us think about us. Because they notice our wrong doings, usually.. so, musyawarah (discuss) with them n try 2 retain a better n good relationship with them. They would mostly like it when u ask 4 their opinion, nicely.. I think. But it's okay 2 ask friends who are honest n would like to help u 2 improve urself, eyh? yup! totally!!
We muslims n muslimahs represent Islam, u see. So, please do try ur best to uphold the purity of Islam, uphold the principles in Islam. It is our responsibility. Sry, I hv to make this short. Gtg.
PS: Mu'mins (Muslims with Iman) never give difficulties 2 others. (Think abt it. It somehow is connected with this topic. Somehow..)
Wallahu'alam.
Oct 10, 2009
Hatred!
Oct 2, 2009
Believe in Allah
Hmm.. U know what? We Muslims must believe in Allah, believe in Allah's promises. Yes, totally!! N which promise am I gonna write about now? U wanna know? Just read up k!
Before we were even born, Allah had ordered then angels (malaikat) to write out our partners in life aka soul mate (jodoh). N Allah promised that a good person will get a good partner. N I believe so! U should too!! Hence, there is no need to worry abt who will be our partner, worry about how good we are instead. We must try to keep on improving ourselves, right? There is also no need of coupling. Yup, coupling. It is unnecessary. Why would we want to couple up? I mean, its ok to get to know each other but dont make it as if that person is mine, n I'm his/her's. Because we are actually Allah's. Right? N if that person gives us inspiration, we actually dont need that inspiration coz u know what? Islam should be ur inspiration. N also, u know what? Whoever does something with the intention (niat) of helping Islam or doing it becoz of Allah, I tell u.. Allah will help that person, even the devils (syaitan) couldnt disturb us. Cool right? Well, I think it's cool!! Haha..
My plan:
1. Get to know, but dont go over the line.
2. Be patient, believe in Allah's promises.
3. Improve myself n be a better muslimah.
4. If any trouble comes ahead, ask for Allah's help.
(To Allah we pray n to Allah we ask for help)
Other opinions could be posted as comments or other possible ways. Wallahu'alam.